Saturday, May 16, 2020

On turning adversity into advantage:

On the occasion of every accident (event) that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use… If it be abusive words, you will find it to be patience. And if you have been thus formed to the (proper) habit, the appearances will not carry you along with them.
- Epictetus, Enchiridion

Monday, May 11, 2020

A quote to remember

Happiness is not achieved by the conscious pursuit of happiness; it is generally the by-product of other activities.

ALDOUS HUXLEY

Contentment

“It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.”
― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

If this is true, I really need to change my thought process.  I am fine with the material things I have, but not with myself as a person.  I always feel that I don't measure up.  Maybe it's just unrealistic standards, or just a general lack of the stuff that brings happiness.  I don't know.  I just someday want to content with who I am.   

Struggling to Be Content

Struggling to Be Content



What the Hero’s Journey Teaches About Happy Retirement - The Atlantic

What the Hero’s Journey Teaches About Happy Retirement - The Atlantic



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Saturday, May 09, 2020

Know where you stand.

I understand where I stand and I might not say anything but it's obvious.  Thanks for the reminder and maybe I should just make plans. 

Friday, May 08, 2020

Resentment

It's just making my life miserable.  I need to let go and let God handle these feelings.  It's a common theme in AA that resentment is one of an Alcoholics greatest threats and I need to deal with it and pray that God can help me with it.  It's just that this person will just not go away. 

On Kierkegaard, Authenticity, and How a Person Should Be | Literary Hub

On Kierkegaard, Authenticity, and How a Person Should Be | Literary Hub



Wednesday, May 06, 2020

Shuteye and Sleep Hygiene: The Truth About Why You Keep Waking up at 3 a.m.

Shuteye and Sleep Hygiene: The Truth About Why You Keep Waking up at 3 a.m.



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Love is an Ongoing Practice

Love is an Ongoing Practice



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‘Always Sticking to Your Convictions’ Sounds Like a Good Thing – But It Isn’t

‘Always Sticking to Your Convictions’ Sounds Like a Good Thing – But It Isn’t



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The Difficult Art of Giving Space in Love

The Difficult Art of Giving Space in 

Walk your own road in life, just be happy with who you are.

I have made the choice to go ahead and not let my past determine my future.  Just let it go and be happy with who I am.  Someday I am going to look back at this period of time as just a bump in the road of life.  The people that are upsetting me won't be around forever and I plan to outlast them in this house.  They may come and go in the future, but I won't make this choice again.  I am fairly happy with myself and the things I need to work on will take some time to change.  I sincerely want to be a better person.